Is Sex a Skill ?
Is Sex a Skill ? One of the common myths about sex is that it is supposed to be “natural “or “automatic “like eating and sleeping . Reproductive sex does appear to be biologically natural .But the other functions of sex -heightened pleasure ,personal self-esteem and relationship intimacy are achieved by learning psychosexual skills Think of any skill that brings satisfaction especially physical activity like dancing, skiing ,swimming ,climbing ,hang gliding ,parachuting or even running .Marathon runners don’t just go out and do it. It takes discipline, concentration ,psychological preparation ,physical conditioning and learning pacing strategies . So if you want to become a “ marathoner” during sex , you will need some mental and physical preparation - some kind of “training” .Yes, biological sex is basically natural - when penis goes into vagina - but to really enjoy emotionally intimate sex takes attention , knowledge and practice. Yes...