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When Do You Need to Consult a Sex Therapist?

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                                            When Do You Need to Consult a Sex Therapist? Some people shy away from the idea of going to a therapist, especially one that wants to talk about sex, which is a particularly sensitive subject. However, I think sex therapy is a wonderful thing and it’s definitely needed in certain situations. Sex therapists are people who are specially trained to deal with sexual issues, so you don’t have to be embarrassed to bring anything up with them. They’ve definitely heard it all! How do you know if you need to see a sex therapist? Here are 8 ways to tell… Online Consultation 1. A persistent problem – If you have a persistent sexual problem that just won’t go away and is causing you personal stress or putting stress on your relationship, it might be time to contact a sex therapist. Only you know if the problem is out of your control and is causing enough trouble in your life, but don’t be afraid to see a therapist. Just like you would take yo

Bringing the fire back in sex life

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                                                      Bringing the fire back in sex life May I remind you that these are only suggestions. You can mould them as per your convenience. The idea is to make you comfortable as a sensual and sexual couple. Please do not try to prove anything to yourself or to your partner. Thoughts like “What if she’s not satisfied?” and “Am I strong enough to make her cum?”, “I should not ejaculate before she discharges” are quite damaging. You should focus on your partner only with the sensation of touch, sexuality and pleasure. 1.    Please ensure adequate privacy and appropriate time. Occasional quickies are good for sex life lest it should not be a routine. Though in metros space is at a premium, you can’t expect to enjoy sex when your children are sleeping in the same room with you. So make sure you too are not occupied by anyone. A temporary partition can be helpful. Go to another room or choosing day time may help. 2.    Make sure you lo

Some tips for your first sex

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                                                          Some tips for your first sex First sex is when you lose virginity. It is thrilling to most but not as shown in Bollywood movies. Traditionally it refers to sex after marriage but in modern society, it may be before marriage as well. How is the experience- Generally there would be a pain of variable degree The vagina is an expandable structure which adjusts according to the size of the penis. You wouldn’t get orgasms but penetration is the most important. Pain is mostly bearable but if it is too much, don’t hesitate to request your husband to stop. If again it is unbearable, you may be needing a lubricant. Bleeding will be just a little bit but if it doesn’t stop for more than 5-10 minutes, don’t hesitate to take help from your elder sister in law or mother in law. Rarely medical help is needed due to inadvertent injury to soft vaginal tissue. You can use an ice pack as a first aid 2- Is it necessary to have sex on

How to straighten a bent penis, How to straighten curved penis

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                                                                How to straighten a bent penis People have lots of worries about the size and shape of the penis. They wish to have a long thick penis which is straight. This is not needed and no one has a perfectly straight penis. Myths about size have been discussed elsewhere. We will talk about the curve right now Curve or bend can be from the middle, base or top of the penis . The one at the top is curved downward or upward . Usually, the opening of the urethra ( urinary opening) is also displaced down or up. This is called hypospadias ( if the urinary opening is present at a place below the normal ) and epispadias If present in a place above the normal. The curve of the penis is called Chordae. The patient generally soils the cloths while passing urine. People find difficulty in penetration of the vagina because of bend and short size. There can be nonconsummation of marriage if it is not treated by surgery before marria

Effect of Pornography

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                                                                Effect of Pornography Pornography viewing is a common sexual practice all over the world. All men and women enjoy it still pretend they don’t like There are lots of misconceptions regarding the relationship of pornography to sexual dysfunctions. It is considered a dirty thing. In India, watching pornography in public is a criminal offence and cajoling a female to watch pornography amounts to sexual harassment which is a criminal offence. If seen in privacy of your bedroom with or without your sexual partner, it is perfectly fine. In most countries, watching child pornography in any form is a criminal offence How frequently it should be seen- There are no hard and fast criteria. But occasional watching as an aid for arousal and moving on to partner sex is healthy but frequent watching for masturbation may result in some problems. Sometimes people limit themselves to watching pornography alone for sexual grat

Sex myths and facts - Top 5 Sex Myths

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                                                                    Sex myths and facts 1 - Male and F should discharge together  -Generally, it never happens. Generally, Females take more time to climax. Moreover, penovaginal stimulation may not suffice. They need clitoral and breast stimulation as well. Men unnecessarily conclude they are climaxing early when compared to their partner. Consult Online with Best Sexologist 2- If I can’t satisfy her tonight, I am good for nothing -This is catastrophic thinking and putting pressure on yourself. This is not a pass-fail test. Failures are common in sex life and just because you may not satisfy her tonight, don’t be so harsh to yourself. 3- My erection is not as good as it was during my young age  - There are other things as well which are not the same as in young age. Sexuality also has effects of ageing. Erection is OK till the time you can complete the act of intercourse. The degree of maximum hardness, but good enough f

Five Steps To A Great Sex Life

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                                                        Five Steps To A Great Sex Life Did you know that an active sexual life is healthy for your mind and body both? Not only does a satisfying and active sex life lend physical pleasure, but it also helps to stimulate your hormones leading to better overall physical health. A fulfilling sex life leaves you emotionally fulfilled and elevated as well. Active sex life is defined by the ability to have sexual relations with a partner at least two times a month if not more. If you feel you need to improve your sex life, here are five easy tips to follow. Incorporate them in your life to see a remarkable difference: 1. Communicate your needs to your partner It is important to speak the truth about your sex life to your partner so that both of you can together work out a way to improve things. It is important to bring out your sexual needs and address the issue right away. If you want to try out some new positions in bed, y

Online Sexologist - Best Sexologist Dr. Saatiish Jhuntrraa

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                                        Online Sexologist - Best Sexologist Dr. Saatiish Jhuntrraa Sexual disorders can be very difficult for most people to talk about. However, with the right experts, you can be more comfortable when you discuss any of these conditions. Be it, men or women, you can find help online with a qualified sex specialist doctor. There are effective treatments available to all kinds of sexual problems. All you need to do is make sure that you receive your consultation with the right experts. Why online consultation Online consultations are effective and convenient. You can chat with the experts to find solutions to any problem that you are currently facing. Whether it is erectile dysfunction, early ejaculation, dryness of the vagina, vaginismus or any such condition that may be hampering your sex life, you will be able to get a detailed consultation online. With online consultations, it is easier for most patients to open up and discuss their is